I love a good date day and thanks to the fact both Ashley and I have had quite a bit going on, we’ve been having a few more than usual. It’s always good to make time to just be together, even if you live together (well, especially if you live together) and it doesn’t really matter what you’re doing. Of course, we tend to go for food more than anything, but we’re venturing out a bit more and trying a few different things! So that’s where the mini golf comes in – last month we had a Paradise Island Adventure Golf open in Derby and I was offered a free game, it seemed like a perfect little date idea, so off we went!
The new one in Derby is actually the sixth location as they already have them in Manchester, Sheffield, Cheshire, Glasgow and Livingston – so if you’re anywhere nearby, go and give it a try! They’ve got two 18-hole courses to choose from called Mermaid Rock and Shark Bay, both with their own little adventures in them. We chose the Mermaid Rock course, which lead through the Monkey Temple which was full of vines and trees with monkey and jungle noises playing in the background (always a nice touch).
When you get about half was around there is the mystical bazaar spice market which has a bit of a Moroccan feel to it (not that I’ve even been but you know). This has a couple of stalls, some gorgeous lanterns that lit the area up nicely and a snake charmer statue on top of one of the stalls. It was a completely different feel to the monkey temple, so much so that it felt like a different course altogether!
We were there for a good hour or so and despite his act on the way there of “I hope you’re ready to get beaten”, I won! It’s not very often I actually beat him at anything so it was a nice little bonus on top of a great date. We’ll definitely be going back again soon and we’ll have a look at what Shark Bay has to offer!
I’m thinking of creating a new series on ‘Date Days’ with a few ideas on whatever we get up to, what do you think?
I know I’ve been really inactive lately and up until this year I had no actual excuse (I’d just been laying around the house) but lately I’ve been trying to sort my life out because quite frankly, it’s been a hot mess. One thing I’ve finally gotten around to sorting out lately is my sweating – through botox- and I thought I’d dive into the topic a little bit, because I know it’s not something that’s talked about very openly and it could help some people out. Be prepared for a long post…
What is Hyperhydrosis?
So if you haven’t read this post then you might not have any idea what hyperhydrosis actually is – in a nutshell, it’s excessive sweating. You sweat 4/5 times the normal amount and it can affect mainly your armpits, hand or feet, so it’s not too pleasant. Personally, it only has a major affect on my armpits and I’ve had it since I was around 12 years old. Of course at first it was put down to hormones, because yeah you do sweat more when you hit puberty, but this definitely isn’t the same thing. I can wear all the deodorant in the world (I think 13 applications in 1 day is my record) and you can wear as much breathable fabric as you want, but the issue is still there. You don’t have to be warm, working up a sweat or even moving, you just sweat – all the time. A good example of this actually is that when I get out of the shower, before I’ve even left the bathroom (and I don’t hang around in there) I’m sweating – annoying huh?
What can be done?
I didn’t go to the doctor about it until I was 15 and even then they diagnosed me with hyyperhydrosis but didn’t really do much. They prescribed me an itchy, flaky roll-on that contains aluminium so it stinged like hell. You couldn’t apply it to broken skin either so it was a choice between shaving my pits or applying an uncomfortable deodrant (come on). I kind of gave up on the doctors after that because they just didn’t seem to see it as a real issue – one that affects your confidence and day to day life, so I just decided to try every deodorant I could get my hands on and see what worked but a pattern started to develop. Each time I found an effective deodorant I’d be fresh as a daisy for a week or so, then my pituitary glands would give it a big fat nope and I was back to square one. I didn’t go back until October of last year and the doctor that saw me couldn’t have been better. He asked why I was there, saw how long I’d had it (it was on my record from the last time) and referred me to a dermatologist there and then!
What did the dermatologists do?
To be fair, it was a pretty long wait to get into the dermatologist (I didn’t get an appointment until January this year) but it was well worth it. I went for an initial consultation and that was a pretty big waste of time because he didn’t tell me anything, but within 2 weeks I was back at the hospital receiving botox! You have to have a starch test before hand to check that you’re affected enough to have it done (mine showed up instantly and everywhere) and that will help determine how many injections you’ll have too. The botox is paralyses the sweat glands which stops you sweating and yes, it’s completely safe, otherwise they wouldn’t do it!
Altogether I had 30 injections (15 in each armpit – each dot in the photo is where the needle went) and it all took about 20 minutes with the starch test included. Yes, it did hurt, but it’s completely worth it. I’ve been told that sometimes it doesn’t fully work the first time you have it done and I definitely get that, I didn’t go in with high hopes so just a little bit of sweat when I get warm definitely doesn’t bother me. It’s nothing in comparison to how I was and it’s great being able to wear whatever I want now! I’ve got an open appointment now to go back when I feel like it’s back to how it was before (it has to be at least 4 months) and then they’ll do the starch test again and I’ll definitely give it another go! I did go through the NHS personally, but if you’re in a position to pay privately, it’s available in most places and well worth the money.
Lastly, if you suffer with hyperhydrosis, know that there’s nothing to be embarrassed about. Everyone sweats, I know it affects your confidence, it did mine, but for the last couple of years I’ve accepted it. It’s part of who I am and even if I want to change it, I’m not going to apologise for it and feel ashamed.
A girl can dream eh? I’m fairly certain everyone would love a lottery win (if you don’t then feel free to send some money my way) but not everyone would know what to do with the money – me included. Of course I’d buy the generic stuff but I’ve never really sat down and thought about it. So, after a bit of a think, here we are! Continue reading “Lottery Win Wishlist”→
I’ve been a little bit off the radar over the last couple of weeks when it comes to blogging but on Saturday I was invited to the A/W fashion show in Intu Derby so of course I jumped at the chance to get out and get me in the mood for writing a bit more! I met a few other blogging gals there and we all sat in a little roped-off section at the side feeling all important and exclusive. The staff at Intu were all so chatty and lovely to us – I’m a fan of anybody willing to feed me muffins and hot chocolate – and they were sure to let us know about all of the other bits and bobs going on throughout the day! Continue reading “Intu Derby A/W Fashion Show”→
There’s a pretty big perk to where I work and that’s how close I am to everything! Lunch breaks are the perfect time to sneak in a cheeky little shopping trip and last week I went a little bit further afield over to TK Maxx!It was only a quick trip (obviously) so I avoided the clothes like the plague and stuck to the beauty and homeware instead. I only really came out with 3 things in the end, but at least I didn’t spend half as much as I would have in a proper trip! Continue reading “A Trip to TK Maxx”→
I’m sure by now you guys know I love candles. Who doesn’t? I’m an avid Yankee Candle fan but as you can probably guess, it’s a pretty expensive obsession and I just can’t afford to keep up with it so I’m always on the look out for an alternative that’s just a good – if not better! Monkey Melts is definitely one of those shops whose products are up there with the best, they’re so good that I’ve already had 2 colleagues order them and they’re just as impressed as I am! Continue reading “Monkey Melts”→
Everyone loves cake right? And what’s better than having it delivered? You don’t even have to move! Granted, you would have to wait a couple of days, but a personalised letterbox caked from Bakerdays is worth the wait! Continue reading “Baker days”→
So on Saturday I was one of the lucky ones as I managed to get a place at the East Midlands Meetup in Leicester! I took the trip with Kirsty at xoxokiki and there were about 40 of us lovely bloggers at Manhattan 34 for happy hour (which I assumed was 2 for 1 but hey ho) for a few talks, some chatting and the most important part – cocktails. Continue reading “#eastmidsmeetup”→
As you’ve seen before when I’ve done a guest post (pas example here), I’ve provided you guys with the link so you can go and check it out (no need to thank me, you’re welcome) in place of my usual post! My guest post for BeccasLoveForLife went up last night so if you want to go and have a read and find out what my top 5 bath and beauty products – 4 of which I’ve written about previously! Continue reading “Top 5 Bath & Beauty Products – Guest Post”→
Last week I got home to one of the best deliveries I’ve had in a while – a big box of Nature’s Soap goodies! I’d never tried Nature’s Soap before so I was so excited to see how good they are, and I was absolutely besotted as soon as I opened the box and got a massive whiff of everything inside! Continue reading “Nature’s Soap – a Lush alternative?”→